For many young mothers across Namibia, the reality of childbirth extends beyond the joy of a newborn, encompassing the lasting physical and emotional impact of Cesarean sections (C-sections). This major abdominal surgery, involving incisions through seven layers of tissue, is often a necessary intervention, yet it leaves mothers facing a demanding recovery while simultaneously caring for a new life.
While childbirth is inherently transformative, C-sections, performed when vaginal delivery poses risks to mother or baby, present unique challenges. Bonaventure Ndjavera, a mother in her early thirties, candidly shares her experiences with two C-sections, each presenting distinct hurdles. “With my first child, complications arose during labour, leading to an emergency C-section,” she recounts. “My second was because I wasn’t progressing past two centimetres after two days of labour.”
Ndjavera notes, “They usually don’t share [the exact reasons] unless you ask them, mos.” She contrasts her recoveries, stating her second was significantly smoother, unlike the initial experience marked by sharp pains and limited mobility. “Sometimes I wonder if you ever fully heal,” she reflects. “I wouldn’t choose a C-section; it takes longer to heal than a normal birth, I think.” Her advice to fellow mothers is clear: prioritize healthy eating, gentle exercise, and ample rest.
Another young mother, speaking anonymously, details her own C-section journey. Complications during her first labour, characterized by severe bleeding, necessitated the procedure. Her second pregnancy also presented challenges. “My blood pressure was high, and my feet were swollen. The doctors couldn’t stabilize the blood pressure and were concerned about the swelling,” she explains.
Post-surgery, she endured significant pain and discomfort. “I was shivering from the cold, I don’t know what caused that, but it was temporary thanks to extra blankets from the hospital,” she recalls. Long-term, she experiences occasional itchiness around her scar, and heightened sensitivity to cold, with pain around her waist.
“I would like to experience how vaginal delivery feels like,” she expresses, acknowledging that, due to her two previous C-sections, doctors deem it impossible.
Despite the challenges, she offers a message of reassurance: “My advice is that C-section is not as scary as portrayed. If you are facing it, do not fear, because all forms of delivery are risky. What one needs is to trust God that everything goes well. Do not fear, trust God and trust the process.”
These personal narratives highlight the varied experiences of young Namibian mothers navigating the physical and emotional aftermath of C-sections. While the procedure is often life-saving, its impact underscores the need for comprehensive post-operative care and support, ensuring mothers can heal effectively and embrace their new roles with strength and confidence.